Health is much more than the absence of illness. It is a state of mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, and relational well-being. Mental health is critical to an individual's overall health and is often overlooked. For many, seeking help for emotional and mental struggles can be difficult and men are less likely to get help. Men have been taught from a young age to be tough and that asking for help is a sign of weakness. They’re expected to “man up” and figure out their problems on their own. Yet, statistics indicate that the expectation to “man up” has detrimental consequences to men’s health. Let’s talk about the statistics and some of men’s mental health needs.
· Nearly 1 in 10 men in America experience depression and anxiety. According to Mental Health America, more than 6 million men in the U.S. experience symptoms of depression every year. More than 3 million experience an anxiety disorder. · Men die by suicide 3.5 times more than women. When left untreated, depression can sometimes lead to suicidal ideation. One reason that men’s suicide rates may be higher is that men are far less likely to seek help. Their depression often presents as irritability and anger while they suffer in silence. · Around 6 out of 10 men suffer at least one trauma in their lifetime. Men are more likely to experience trauma related to physical assault, combat, accidents, or witnessing injury and death. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) can take weeks, months, or even years to develop after a traumatic event. PTSD can cause many symptoms that interfere with one’s daily life such as avoiding places that are a reminder of the trauma, hypervigilance or alertness to danger, nightmares, flashbacks, relationship problems, and more. · Men are nearly twice as likely to binge drink than women. Men also have higher rates of alcohol-related deaths and hospitalizations and are more likely to have used alcohol before committing suicide. Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. If you or someone you know is struggling with a mental health issue, there is hope! We are here to help. Call us at 909-985-0513 to schedule a counseling appointment. Sources: Mental Health America mha.org; National Association on Mental Illness nami.org A growing number of youth in the U.S. live with major depression, with 15.08% of youth experiencing a major depressive episode in the past year. The ongoing stress, fear, grief, and uncertainty of the last two years has weighed heavily on them, and many are struggling to cope emotionally. If your teen is struggling with depression, there are things you can do to help. The first step in helping your child battle depression is knowing how to recognize the warning signs.
We are here to help! Our therapists specialize in working with children, teens, and their families. Call us at 909-985-0513 to schedule an appointment. *San Bernardino Community Crisis Response Team is available 24 hours a day, 365 days a year at 909-535-1316. Sources: National Alliance on Mental Illness, nami.org; Mental Health America, mhanational.org In 1987, President Reagan recognized March as Developmental Disabilities Awareness Month to increase “public awareness of the needs and potential of Americans with developmental disabilities” and to provide the “encouragement and opportunities they need to lead productive lives and to achieve their full potential.”
Developmental disabilities are defined as impairments in physical, learning, language, or behavior areas. “Children with disabilities remain the most excluded group [when it comes to educational opportunities], discriminated not only because of their disability but also because of lack of understanding and knowledge about its causes, implications, and stigma” (Global Partnership for Education). In the struggle to increase educational and social opportunities for children with disabilities, their parents/caregivers are champions advocating for and securing necessary services, resources, and support. This can cause them to feel overwhelmed and ignore or minimize their own needs in the process. “In addition to experiencing high levels of chronic stress, anxiety, and depression, parents of children with disabilities are faced with the heartbreaking limitations that exist in a world where not all children are included, considered, and prioritized in the same ways” (Munoz 2017). Every day, our Behavior Specialists work with these parents providing in-home behavior intervention services and training. They witness the extra resilience, perseverance, compassion, and resourcefulness required of these parents/caregivers and how critical their self-care is to the well-being of their families. If you or someone you love is the parent of a child with special needs, keep reading for ways you can make self-care a priority.
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Everyone deserves a healthy, loving relationship. But how do you know if your relationship is happy and healthy? How do you know what characteristics to look for in another person and how to create a strong bond? While there is no cookie-cutter mold for a healthy relationship, below are seven signs you can look for.
Like many people, you may have entered 2022 with a laundry list of resolutions. As we near the end of January, you may have already given up on many of them. Multiple studies show that about 8% of people who make new year’s resolutions follow through all year and 80% quit by February. People who are successful at achieving their resolutions typically set realistic and measurable goals and are ready to change. Extreme, overly idealistic resolutions that you are not able or ready to keep can lead to feelings of disappointment, guilt, and not being good enough.
If you struggle with depression and anxiety or are in recovery from abuse, trauma, alcohol/drugs, and eating disorders, these all or nothing resolutions can be especially detrimental. You don’t need to try to change who you are with excessive resolutions. Everyone has unwanted life experiences and personal imperfections beyond their control. While it may seem counterintuitive, by radically accepting yourself and your reality, you can get unstuck and make positive changes. What is Radical Acceptance and how can you practice it? Radical Acceptance is an element of Dialectical Behavior Therapy. It is about accepting life on life’s terms and not resisting what you cannot or choose not to change. It is a skill that can help you keep pain & discomfort from turning to suffering. Below are some tips* for learning how to accept your circumstances and the emotions attached to them while still moving toward your goals.
Practicing Radical Acceptance can be challenging. Learning to change your perspective takes time. But, once you do learn to accept your reality, you will be better equipped to cope with difficult situations and feelings, making it easier to progress toward your goals. If you find yourself struggling to give yourself grace or punishing yourself, it may be time to reach out to a mental health professional. Sources: lifelineconnections.org; University of Scranton; uabmedicine.org; hhs.gov; psychologytoday.com * Dr. Wendy Oliver-Pyatt, Within Health For most people, the holiday season is filled with celebrations, family, and friends. But, for many it is a time filled with stress, sadness, and loneliness. If you find this time of year difficult to enjoy, you are not alone.
Seasonal factors can trigger "holiday blues" such as changes in diet and routine or the inability to be with family and friends. These factors can seriously impact your mood. People who already live with a mental health condition need to take extra care of their overall health and well-being during this time (nami.org). Below are 10 practical tips* to help manage the stress and depression that often accompany the holidays, and may even help you enjoy them more.
Reduce the time you spend reading news and social media. Include regular physical activity in your daily routine. Get plenty of sleep. Eat healthy meals throughout the season.
*from mayoclinic.org |
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