"We must be willing to feel the effects of our loss, to examine our hearts under the tutelage of the Holy Spirit, to release tears, and to relinquish our rights to understand. In doing so, we will feel the pain, but we’ll learn appropriate ways to express it. Some-times it will be through the healing release of tears, prayer, some form of art, or words (spoken or written)." -Patsy Clairmont-